As if taking an "Anger Management" class on a day in which love is celebrated was not bad enough...
Because we service the public, my co-workers and I, along with others, were required to take an Anger Management Training Course. Although the title of the class leads you to believe that I may have anger issues and have been advised to resolve them, the goal of the class was designed to help us to better manage the angry public. Now, I say the goal of the class...was the goal achieved? Hardly.
Turns out the class ended up being more of a how-do-you-see-yourself/behavior corrections class. You see, the instructor's main job outside of the training course is to counsel probationers with anger issues. Unfortunately, he forgot to check those reponsibilities at the door before presenting his knowledge to us. Basically, he treated the class as if we were his unlawful citizens who are required to take his class in hopes that it will correct their angry behavior.
By the end of the class, I had walked out extremely agitated. I did not agree with his teaching methods, nor did I agree with how he proposed we resolve an issue. Case in point:
Situation:
You are walking curbside, and a car drives by and splashes mud and water all over you. What do you do? The car pulls to a 7-11 a block away to fill up gas. What do you do?
My Answer:
Yell and curse profusely. Then, go home and change.
Instructor's Answer:
Walk over to 7-11 and confront the driver. The driver has a right to know what he/she did to you. It is your responsibility to manage the situation and any anger that you may have.
What the hell kind of answer is that?! It is the 21st century - you have lost your mind if you think it is safe to go up to a stranger and point out something he/she did wrong. People carry guns around with them nowadays. Why confront someone when you can just go home, change, and get on with your day while staying alive?
I think I best continue managing angry people the way I know how until shown a better way.